But when the big reputable services like Match.com, e Harmony.com, etc.discover a bad profile, they take action to remove it.
Sluppick's site appears non-commercial, and she started it simply as a Yahoo Group two years ago. She says she always requires the other person to do this before she will interact with them.
One group member talked about the recurring problem she's had meeting straight men on dating sites who are pretending to be lesbians. Certainly lesbians are a sexual 'turn on' to many straight men.
And here's where male interest becomes our problem: You can't begin to know whether the new woman you just met on a dating site is a woman or a rather tame, but persistent male internet porn or sex addict, just looking for a thrill.
Lastly, don't forget that a clean criminal background check today is not an excuse to 'let your guard down' as women with severe personality problems or behaviors are often adept at hiding them until after they have their 'hooks' in you and it's hard for you to leave.
Discard these myths about online dating safety When it comes to 'affairs of the lesbian heart', one of the biggest dangers I see in the lesbian community is the mistaken belief that, because men are 'not in the equation', they are immune from online dating scams.